As the the busiest city in France, Paris isn’t short of events, attractions or activities. Due to its variety and density, navigating the city for the first time may seem challenging. Here are a few practical tips and social tricks to better understand France's capital and help make the most of your first trip.

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What to do in Paris

If your time is limited, make sure you pinpoint in advance the main sights you wish to visit. Booking online for museums, exhibitions or theater performances will save you a lot of time waiting in lines. On the other hand, if you’re more the type who goes with the flow, you might want to stroll until you’re lost and be surprised by your surroundings. In French, there's a word for this: flâner. Most landmarks are concentrated in the city center, which makes it easy to wander around and never get bored.

 

Etiquette in Paris

Be aware of individual space

People in Paris seem to always be in a rush. Museums, parks, shops, offices and restaurants are all next to each other, so you will encounter Parisians in a hurry wherever you go. Be mindful when you need to stop on the street – step to the side to avoid disrupting the flow of people.

 

Speaking French

Despite the apparent rush, Parisians will generally stop to help when asked to. Most people are able to give you basic directions in English. The phrase "excusez-moi, parlez-vous anglais?" ("excuse me, do you speak English?") is the best way to get someone's attention. It's also polite to greet and say farewell to anyone you interact with, such as shopkeepers, with "bonjour" (or "bonsoir" at night) and "au revoir". Paris is a very diverse city, and people may assume you are local and start a conversation with you in French.

 

Socializing

La bise – giving kisses on the cheeks (two in Paris) – is the most common greeting among friends. As a foreigner, you won’t be expected to do it. However, should you befriend locals, don’t be surprised to see them make a move towards your cheeks.

 

At cafes and restaurants

The best places to experience Paris and its people are at the cafes and restaurants. Take a moment to rest on a terrasse, cafe tables on the street, where you'll be able to people-watch while planning the next part of your day. On arrival at cafes and bars, choose your table and take a seat. A waiter will come and take your order. Tap water is free with any order so don’t hesitate to ask for “une carafe d’eau” (a water jug). Tipping is not required but always appreciated.

 

Other social rules

Smoking tobacco is common in France. If you wish to smoke, make sure you’re in an open space (pavement cafes count) as smoking inside is forbidden by law. Also note that Parisians appreciate discretion, so loud voices may be frowned upon.